Celebrated author and columnist Shobhaa Dé returns with a provocative new title, The Sensual Self — a bold, unfiltered exploration of sensuality, love, and desire across every age and stage of life.

In this compelling book, Dé urges readers to ditch the rulebook and “abandon good sense” when it comes to embracing their sensual selves. She reminds readers that sensuality knows no age limit — whether you’re twenty or seventy, it’s never too late to reclaim your desires and rediscover your confidence.

From navigating heartbreak and rejection to tackling issues like dissatisfaction in marriage, fading libido, or the complexities of modern relationships, The Sensual Self delves deep into the emotional and physical dimensions of human desire. Dé writes with her trademark wit and candour about everything from thrilling first dates and the art of the perfect kiss, to the messy realities of casual relationships, kinks, and red flags.

The book challenges both men and women to push boundaries: men are urged to be more attentive, experimental, and non-judgmental, while women are encouraged to stop settling for routine “dal-chawal” sex when life can offer something as exciting as “spicy chicken chilli fry.”

Part manifesto and part modern guide, The Sensual Self is a fearless celebration of sensual freedom — one that inspires readers to embrace their (im)perfections, take charge of their desires, and live, love, and lust on their own terms.

A prolific writer, Shobhaa Dé is the author of more than twenty bestselling books, translated into several languages including French, German, Italian, Portuguese, Russian, Spanish, and Turkish.